I think differently about grief. People or random people forget it, treat it with a secondary post in their life. Anything or anyone filled your heart with fear or grief, uncomfortable events, broken trust, cheap comments or opinions, anything around this world which possibly can hurt you, YOU NEVER FORGET IT. The day, the box opens up, it will have the same smell, same pinching effect, OH YES! PINCHING EFFECT. That’s the beauty of grief, that’s the special property it has to tease you even after so many years or a few months or days. And if you got the ability to
forget it, if you can scratch it from the walls of your heart and mind, then who so ever entered your life with the utmost sparkle, is THE ONE for you.
At night, when your heart is bright, you are alone in rain, they all will come back like old friends, to tease you again, to kiss your cheeks tickle your toes, and you will say, oh that started again. Again the heart broke, again the disappointment, again & again, what the people have thought, and you had to face it. did you get what I tried to say? It was very clear to me.
Everyone talks about the benefits of education. You must have heard it alot of times. You must have also heard abour the demerits of education as well. People are different, if you are with 6 people in a room, that means there are 7 different, difficult, free, politically enhanced or not at all, kind of minds in there. There is a world around you who feel that EDUCATION is more dangerous than beneficial actually. It could be anyone, Men. Women, Third Gender, Dogs and Elders as well. Sorry to add Elders after dogs. its just you cant handle your own shit and then their are people who are Elders. So Frustrating. Well, back to purpose-EDUCATION- There is a benefit of being un-educated or Low on education that you would never be in a situation where your education would be questioned in any way. Yes, there is also a benefit of being educated and a graduate or post graduate degree holder, that you would never put someone in a situation where the other feels low on education and a lack of degree in their academic file. May be not a big one, but it is a difference my dear fellow webbies. Yeah, I got you a name- WEBBIES, my web friends and fellows.
Stay Blessed, Stay Clean, Stay Safe, Stay Mean.
For everyone out there, definitely, new years are always different for you. For some the last year was very exciting and full of enthusiasm, for some, the last year was sad and sorrowful. For me, it was a mixture of different events, good and bad, pleasurable and cringy, and some events I didn’t expect to happen to me.
Everyone makes resolutions for new years that they will not do things which delimits them and will do the extra which was always needed. I was frustrated in the year 2017, most of the people in my surrounding were just a piece of pain for me and you know the time when people do it on purpose but I never forget. In the year 2018, my first resolution is to CELEBRATE MY PAIN. It has different methods, cherish it or let go of it if it feels right to you. Letting go of what annoys you is difficult to some extent as you feel problem in forgetting things. Then I found a solution that why to forget things if they come upon again and again?
You should cherish the love of your pain, your longings, desires and holes which never got a chance to fill. You can fill those holes with you bright thoughts you know.
Everyone thinks that the other is wrong standing before them, arguing about something. We have established a point that everyone is wrong and what we have in mind is right. The point is that the point is different for everyone and the mind also scrolls to different paradigms and different roads, at different situations. We all have the consistency to enter few things in ourselves and exclude a couple of things as well. The need is just to understand the other one. It is not necessary that the point is right or not, the point is yours, so the judgment should be different about everyone.
For me, a person is mature when he or she has the ability to swallow whatsoever comes in the way. Opinion-making is easy, justification is difficult. Suggestions are easy to propose, understanding the situation is difficult. People make fun of opinions they got in their way to deal with. The thing necessary is to see the things through other’s eyes. Put their shoes ON and try to walk for a few seconds. Feel the way the other one feels. Examining other’s point of views will increase and broaden our own mind as well and perhaps make a good way to go and sometimes Let Go Of things as well.
Rape. Rapists, quite the controversial concepts in the societies. I will enhance my side of the east, India Pakistan, are top ones who show the content like this, maybe not every day but that happens in the system every day. Now you will be thinking how this girl knows that this is happening every day. The word meaning or dictionary meaning of rape says when someone tries to manipulate any person, for sexual intercourse specifically, without their consent and will. Legit it is but I have an objection. That’s what a sane or insane mind like me can do. So all of you out there, you think that is rape when it is done to any gender, yes you know that today not only women, but men also came in the circle of getting sexually molested by men or indirectly by women as well.
I DO NOT THINK LIKE THAT. For me, all the definitions of rape or rapists should have extensions now. The matter should be elaborated with all his sub grounds. It is a matter of few seconds that a person can rape the other one, it is in the eyes. It is in the words you utter for someone. Rape is your thinking you establish for someone- your ex, your man, your girl. Raping someone is when you insult someone in gatherings sensually, sexually, improperly, snatching the decency of a person just because you have something with that. That is exact RAPE.
So, all men, all bloody women out there, do you think you are not rapists? do you think you are that important 2BHK personality who can talk about anyone, anyway, anytime, in any manner you want? You are all wrong. Wearing white, looking bright, being beautiful oh you are actually beautiful-right, this all hides your real being of nothing just a rapist. It’s good for you. You live through that-definitely good for you. How can you have a life without not raping other girls or boys? it’s not possible right… May God have some mercy for you, people like me are a bit selfish, we are not the ones for. we will get the one we deserved, you will have the one like you.. Mirror is the only thing that will stop your rape 🙂